How and why we came to write this book -- The nature of mentoring ; As iron sharpens iron ; Why men need mentoring ; What is mentoring? -- Part 1 : for men who want to be mentored ; Start with your story ; Whom to look for, and what mentors look for in you ; Putting yourself in opportunity's path ; Making the relationship work ; What should you work on? ; What should you watch out for? ; Where will this process end up? -- Part 2 : for men willing to serve as mentors ; Are you willing to care? ; Do you realize what you have to offer? ; What are the questions men ask? ; Some common themes of mentoring ; What should you watch out for? ; What will be you legacy?