Originally published in the USA by Multnomah Publishers, c2005.

Includes bibliographical references (p. 241-243).

What I've learned since I kissed dating goodbye : from waiting to knowing-a personal story -- Rediscovering courtship -- Romance and wisdom : a match made in heaven, why you need more than just intense feelings -- Tell me how, tell me who, tell me when!, how God guides you to the right thing at the right time -- More than friends, less than lovers, how to grow and guard in friendship, fellowship, and romance -- What to do with your lips, practical principles for great communication -- If boys would be men, would girls be ladies?, how to embrace your God-given role as a man or woman -- Courtship's a community project, how to gain guidance, support, and strength from your church and family -- True love doesn't just wait, how to be passionately in love and sexually pure -- When your past comes knocking, how you can face past sexual sin and experience God's forgiveness -- Are you ready for forever?, ten questions to answer before you get engaged -- That day, living and loving in light of eternity.